Life Lessons

3 Lessons From Climbing the Wli Waterfall

Wli Agumatsa Waterfalls is located in the Volta Region near the HoHoe municipality in Ghana and a stone’s throw away from the Togo border. The Wli Waterfalls is the highest waterfall in Ghana and West Africa. The five-hour commute to the area is an experience in itself. Unless you charter a private car or bus, tro-tros are the most common mode of transportation to and from the Wli village. With the aid of my bluetooth headphones and cellphone’s gospel playlist, I was able to focus on the beautiful mountainous views and not so much on the rocky transit.

I was excited about the new adventure but I underestimated the arduousness of trekking three hours to the upper waterfall. Thirty minutes into the trek my stamina was being tested, I was huffing, puffing, and sweating profusely. I worked leg muscles I didn’t know existed. The path or lack thereof consisted of stones, mud, bush, and cliffs. Replaying the experience over and over in my head, I wonder why didn’t I retreat to the lower waterfall? The trek was difficult from the onset. Three life lessons became apparent to me during my pondering. Oblige me to share my experience with you.

Francis, our guide.

Pay someone to guide you. #1 of the 3 life lessons learned. We were being led by someone who’s been (multiple times) to the Wli Upper Waterfall. Our tour guide Francis was remarkable. Similar to my husband, he’s a man of few words and only talked when necessary like informing us of important facts about the area – plants, insects, history, Togo’s border, indigenous people. The mere fact he climbed up and down the mountain in flip flops was impressive, to say the least, and he’s completed the 5-hour trek twice in one day on several occasions. While I’m gasping for air, he didn’t seem fazed by the trek at all. He probably can climb the mountain blindfolded and barefoot.

Impressively, he knew the way without a compass, GPS, map, or any signs to direct us. When we encountered cliffs with beautiful but scary views, he coached me on how to walk on the path and alerted us in areas where we needed to be cautious. He advised us when to rest. The confidence he portrayed in navigating the mountain boosted my morale and self-confidence that I could make it to the top. The lesson I learned here is if I want to achieve big goals in life, hire and pay someone who’s already walked the path and adhere to their guidance to get desired results faster. If we had not hired Francis, we would have been wandering aimlessly in the mountains for more than 5 hours. He kept up the appropriate speed and tempo to get us to the upper waterfall in record time despite me lagging behind.

Have someone in your corner. #2 of the 3 life lessons learned. I had my personal cheerleader encourage me along the way. My husband spoke positive words of affirmation during the entire trek and at times gave me tough love when my fear tried to paralyze me. He reassured me time and time again that I wasn’t going to fall. Daniel continuously checked on my welfare. He held my hand and pulled me along the way or instructed me to hold onto his clothing when my pace decreased dramatically. The hubby made sure I stayed hydrated. In addition, he was my personal photographer ensuring this experience was documented and memorable.

His presence alone made the journey more enjoyable, worthwhile, and doable. The lesson I learned here is it is important to have someone in your corner, who earnestly believes you can do the hard stuff in life and pushes you past your limitations. For example, my husband is currently training me. I prefer for him to instruct me and not train with me. He takes exercise to another level because he’s a professional athlete. He pushes me past my limits, 8-second laps become 6-second laps. In just a few weeks, my clothes are already fitting loosely. Proving my first lesson: experts get you results fast.

The beautiful views were worth the climb.

The road to the top is less traveled and much harder but so more satisfying. #3 of the 3 life lessons learned. On our trek to the upper waterfall, we saw no person or beast, just insects, mainly mutant ants. I’ve never seen ants that big. When we finally reached the creme de la creme, it was uninhabited and breathtaking. Pictures and videos do not exhibit the beauty of the place. We did not encounter any human or beast until we trekked another hour and a half to the lower falls. Where not only the people were enjoying swimming in the lower waterfall pool but the fruit bats were enjoying soaring in and out of the caves. We also witnessed a poisonous snake in a pond near the pool the lower waterfall flowed into.

The hike to the lower waterfall was 30-45 minutes on a cleared, unobstructed, sometimes fenced path. It was definitely a walk in the park. As we were leaving, countless people were making the trek to the lower waterfall without a guide. My clothes and shoes were covered by dirt and mud, I walked proudly with my head held high back to the entrance of the waterfalls with a huge smile on my face, greeting all the lower waterfall tourists because inside I knew what I had accomplished and I felt great about it.

We made it.

This life experience has not only given me bragging rights (LOL) but has taught me new ways of living that will aid me in reaching the highest, truest, fullest expression of myself. Recap: First, pay an expert so I can get results faster. Secondly, maintain a support person or group to encourage me during challenging times. Lastly, the road less traveled is much harder but the end result is 100 times more gratifying than the road the masses are taking.

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Our trip to Wli Waterfalls to celebrate our 60 day wedding anniversary.


  • Teresa Martin-Bowers

    Loved looking at the pictures, and I must agree with you; you were rewarded at the end of your journey. What a breathing taking site of that waterfall; such a beautiful and peaceful look place. Image, God has created such a place. As we all reach for success, it is great to have people to cheer and affirm success. Positive Affirmation helps one to focus your mind on achieving goals. I feel The more you hear positive statements of achievement and success, the more you will believe it and eventually achieve it. Glad you have an awesome cheering squad. I try to practice affirming my nieces daily. Every day, my sister and I would send text messages of affirmation to build their character and definitely to motivate them to do their best throughout the day.


      What a great practice you and your sister have in place for your nieces! Continue to motivate and inspire them.

  • Thomas Dixon

    All I can say is amazing‼️ You, your journey, and your inspiration are all amazing. You are closer than ever to manifesting things you long dreamed of. And then it’s on to greater heights. Thanks for challenging me and inspiring me to “Level Up!!!”

  • Toyya Waller

    What an experience this must have been, looks like it was a rewarding experience and then to be able to share it with your husband. I love how you are embracing your new life and keeping us involved in your journey, cant’ wait for your next entry. Love You


    This is such an amazing STORYYY!!!!. OMG and inspiring too. I really love your pictures. There all beautiful!! Thanks so much for sharing and I want to hear more. I’m very proud of you!!


    Reading your July blog post has inspired me to step-out my comfort zone and I will be exploring in a new business opportunity that was offered to me two years ago. FEAR and finances kept me from moving forward with it, but thanks to you, I will be moving forward with it now and the opportunity is still there for me to do so. Thanks for your inspiration and we’ll see what happens!! I am stepping out of the box…….PLEASE PRAY FOR ME!!

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